MY ARGUEMENT

Many Americans  complain about  how or government has entered into our homes in regards to how we discipline -our children,its being called child abuse.There are many forms of  abuse my argument is back in the 60,70. parents; were able to  discipline. with out your child telling you mom if you spank me .I will call 911.The government has no place in our homes to Tell us how we should discipline our children many youth has fallen threw the cracks based on; The fact tthat our government   is not allowing us as parents to do what we need to do for our children everything is Done in the best interest of the child . I strongly dis agree with the system the way they have power on what can be done  in my own home or with my child ; In conclusion government has no place in. Americans homes when it comes to discipline, your child no one should have more authority other than the biolocail parents  three strong facts that .I would like to point out is the first is that a child voice should always be herd thats the secondt rule ,weathwer child is telling a lie or the truth every thing must be looked at. as if 'this child is telling the truth  and the third it is imperative to investgate many untruths rather than allowing a child to be harm by disbeilf.

BYSTANDER

    My own personal experience on May 15,2010 my five Best friends and I were getting together to plain my best friend wedding only to find out that she was calling the wedding off because her night and shinning armor changes do to certain circumstances.He had hit her once before and promised never to do it again we all know how that can go, oh''blind by love moving along with the story trying to make a wonderful night to a heart broken friend hearing the soft sound off disappointment in her soft spoken voice.Going on with the evening ordering drinks,and food waiting for the band to get started as,I was returning from the ladies room the waiter stop me and ask me was my friends ok and was everything set up to perfection we still wanted the strippers we needed to cheer or girl up.Needless to say it began to work the music was playing so the waiter returned back to the table and handed my bestfriend a note and, she excused her self from the table and we all where setting there just drinking and having fun.So we notice;that some time had went by and she have not returned back to the table so we continue to have fun so she enter back into the room and one of her friends was out side she started to explain to him what had happened.How ever her ex had been stocking her and so her gentelnman friend says ohh dont worrie about that its not the end of the world he left to go to the dressing room and onceagain we had a run in with the man from hell he stormed into the club with a loaded thirty eight pistol he holded everybody hostage for about fighteen minutes and he said to use if any body screams or make a noise or suddenmovements we all felt so very helpless we had to wait untill he left the club and then this abbuse went on for about twenty four hours before the police caught up with him.

SELF REGAULATED BEHAVIOR

In the academic tool box was a learning experience for me,did not have any idea that my method of studying was way off ,to be successful in a job you must have the right tools to control the outcome of the work.what has being a very big challenge for me was being able to succeed and the ability to self asses.what I've learn is how to evaluate my work to determine; progress toward personal and academic.goals using motivation methods of learning how to manage my time and not fillings so overwhelmed with the kids cooking etc.when will the recommended time come into to play 1. Read the syllabus in order to understand what your are required to do and what the teacher expect out of you as a student.self help when its needed 2.Use different study methods . 3.Plain how to use my time.4 Modify my studying environment so that I can concentrate .The over all experience  for me would be to use the tools study  2hours a day change my social environment every week en don't need to be in charge of every activity delegate responsibilities to others.time management is the key to academic success.

MY READING HISTORY

I really hated reading  my oldest brother taught me how to read and write. He was not that good very rigid very afraid;that .I ,would not understand ,he was self taugt  and he gave me all that he had the most important thing that I remember is he told me read every thing news paper milk cartoons coloring books what ever just do it  at some point in my life I knew that it was impartive  that reading and writing is a tool thats needed in life my biggest problem is retaning whats read how to trasnmitt, it to other,such as helping my children or a class mate being able too help some one elese.